In every society, cultural norms and civility form the bedrock of collective life. For generations, certain truths were accepted without question, passed down as unquestionable wisdom. However, what the previous generation held as essential may not hold the same relevance today. Change is inevitable, and with it comes the necessity to unlearn and relearn. This does not imply that the past was wrong or devoid of value. Many principles and lessons continue to guide us. Yet, aspects that hinder growth or no longer serve the present must be reconsidered.
The knowledge and perspectives of the youth today can surpass those of their elders in certain fields. The monopoly of ‘knowledge’ by the older generation is no longer valid. Elders must acknowledge that the experience they carry does not automatically make them infallible. They need to shed dogmatism, unlearn rigid beliefs, and relearn with openness to fresh ideas.
Similarly, the youth must cultivate the courage to question inherited norms. Blind acceptance of tradition or authority is no longer sufficient. Inquiry and critical thinking are essential to understanding what is relevant, what is right, and what values must be preserved. Respect for elders remains vital, but respect should not translate into unquestioning obedience. Wisdom lies in discerning which teachings uphold justice, civility, and progress, and which need reinterpretation.
Cultural norms evolve with society. Practices that were once considered necessary or correct may now impede justice, equality, or progress. Civility itself is not static; it changes with social awareness and the need for mutual respect. The balance lies in honoring enduring values while recognizing that some lessons from the past require change to remain meaningful. Unlearning and relearning is not just an individual responsibility but a collective necessity. Societies that resist this process risk stagnation.
Ultimately, the ability to unlearn and relearn reflects both humility and wisdom. It is the recognition that the world changes, that knowledge evolves, and that no one hold all the answers forever. Embracing this principle will allow us to approach the present with clarity, shape the future with foresight, and preserve values that truly matter.
Unfortunately, not many elders, especially in traditional societies like the Nagas, are ready to unlearn and relearn. The sad aspect is that the youth often follow their elders and remain trapped in the past, unwilling to unlearn and relearn, thereby continuing the cycle of ignorance and backwardness. Most of what ails Naga society, including corruption, could be addressed and resolved if both elders and youth were willing to unlearn and relearn.